Britt Merrick
  • Archives
  • Jun20

    In response to my last post about Childlike Faith someone asked the question, “Where does forgiving ourselves come in?” That is such a good question. I think all of us struggle with forgiving ourselves from time to time. I my sharing my reply to her in hopes that it will be helpful to more of you: 

    “It is wrong to hold against ourselves what Jesus paid for with His blood. We cannot treat what He has forgiven as an offense anymore. I know it can be the hardest thing in the world to forgive ourselves, but we can do it because whatever the offense we committed was, it has been dealt with by the blood of Jesus (See 1 Peter 1:22-25). We must realize that we are not more just or righteous than God. Therefore, we cannot demand of ourselves (or anyone else) more than God does. If He can forgive our sins according to the finished work of Christ on the Cross, then we must do the same. We do it in faith and according to the Cross. To not do so (and I know how hard it can be), is a sin. We cannot demand of ourselves a greater price than God demanded of us in His Son. It elevates sin and self above Christ and the power of the Cross. We must not do that. To honor God and live a right and spiritually healthy life was need to forgive ourselves once we have repented before God. I hope this helps. I really do understand how difficult this can be and believe it to be common to so many of us. I pray the Holy Spirit helps you to forgive yourself today.”

    blessings!

    britt

  • Jun19

    Jesus taught that we are to have child-like faith.(1) One facet of what this looks like was recently taught to me by my daughter. Daisy Love Merrick is almost four years old and loves nothing more than being in Daddy’s lap. She can never just sit there though. She is always rocking back and forth, or jumping up and down, or poking her face into mine and making faces or trying to lick me or something cool like that.

    Just a bit ago she was rocking back in forth in my lap and putting her feet up in the air, when all of a sudden she pulled them back and then thrust them forward into my stomach. It really hurt. She is an exceptionally strong little girl! 

    I responded with a little frustration and reprimanded her by saying, in a disciplinary tone (the kind that puts the fear of a Daddy in a little girl), “Daisy, you don’t kick Daddy!” Her face immediately displayed dismay and disappointment (the kind that puts the love of a little girl in Daddy), and she said, “I’m sorry Daddy.” 

    My wife and I have always sought to teach our children to be quick to forgive and so I  instantly said, “I forgive you baby.” This is where she taught me. As soon as I said “I forgive you”, her whole countenance changed and she lit up with a giant smile and began to giggle and hum a little melody and tickle me playfully… as if the offensive kick had never happened. As if it had never happened.

    But it was even better than before the offense. There was a fresh joy and intimacy. This is the reality of the power of the Cross in our lives when we exercise childlike faith. Like it never even happened, but with a new joy and expression of love and intimacy. Because as Jesus taught, those who have been forgiven much love much.(2) The way Daisy easily and completely received my forgiveness is the way we should receive the forgiveness of God through the finished work of Jesus Christ on the Cross. Joy, peace, love, and intimacy.

    I love being forgiven. Thank you Lord!

    _________________

    (1) See Matthew 18:3 and Mark 10:14-16

    (2) See Luke 7:36-50; especially verse 47

  • Jun19

    Footnotes

    Posted in: books

    This must be said: Read the footnotes and endnotes in books. Nobody does and everyone should. They are there for a reason. Sometimes they are very telling. You may discover who an author has been reading and so has been influenced by–for better or for worse. From this you may get turned on to some great new authors you have never read. Or, you may learn that the person you are reading has some strange and questionable influences and so you are warned to precede with caution.

    Also, modern publishers are often publishing for the average reader and so working very hard to make their books simple, easy, and accessible. Sometimes, the information a student of the Word and the Faith is most interested in is in the notes.

    I am so annoyed by publishers and books that put the notes at the end of a book (endnotes) and not the bottom of the page (footnotes)–so tedious and unfair. This is done in most popular books. Who wants to flip to the back every few seconds? I don’t, but I do.  Conversely, more scholarly books have the notes at the bottom of the page, because they know scholars are interested in reading the notes for further insight and learning, so they very kindly make it convenient to do so. Be interested in reading the notes. Be a scholar!

    Don’t let the idea of “being a scholar” conjure up connotations of mean men and women who have no real faith in Jesus and just sit in seminaries writing books that cast aspersion on Scripture and the historicity and deity of Christ. There are those types to be sure! But that is not what I am referring to when I say to you “be a scholar”. I mean: be a “specialist in a branch of study and one who has an aptitude for study”.(1) Be a specialist in studying the person of Jesus and the Christian faith and have an aptitude to study the Word of God!(2) 

    We have enough Christians who are working hard at being popular. We should be working hard at being studious!(3) 

    ____________________________________

    (1) The Oxford American Dictionary.

    (2) See 2 Timothy 2:15

    (3) Again, see 2 Timothy 2:15 if you didn’t the first time. If you did not go and see 2 Timothy 2:15 the first time it is either because you already know what it said (good job), or you are not interested in further study. This footnote is a test. If you read it and follow its advice to see 2 Timothy 2:15 you will have learned more about the Bible, the will of God for your life, and the implications of this blog than if you ignored it. You will also see from whence I have drawn my inspiration for being a diligent student of the Word of God. Hopefully this will change your mind about a few things. Working hard at studying the Bible is not a self-selected option for a few; it is a command of Scripture for every Christian everywhere at all times. 

  • Jun16

    How I Use Books

    Posted in: books

    Hey guys… I was just asked a question on the “Britt’s Books” page of this blog site from a brother who loves books (as I do), but was in the habit of not finishing them and was feeling a little sad about it. I wrote him back, and after doing so it occurred to me that some others out there may be feeling similarly. So I thought i would share part of my response with y’all I hope it is helpful.

    “…don’t feel bad about not finishing books. I probably don’t finish at least half the books I read. I read until I feel satisfied, and then I stop. Why not? The only book I feel obligated to keep reading is the Bible. Every other book is a tool… you use it for as long as it meets a need and fulfills a purpose. When that is achieved, you put the tool down. No problem. Most books are only great for so long or in certain parts. Usually I will use a book like a reference work and pick the parts out of it that will be useful to me. I hope that helps…”

    PS- Because I do view books as tools and reference works I take copious notes in them while reading. You know, like congruent thoughts I am having or revelations or cross references to Scripture or whatever. I also use tabs to keep track of topics, quotes, thoughts, points, facts, or whatever that I may want to refer to later. I do this with everything I read. It really slows the reading down, but then it makes the book a more effective tool in the future. Lets say I am doing a sermon on prayer and I remember something Charles Spurgeon said in Lectures To My Students (a must read for ministers by the way) on the subject. If it was profound enough for me to remember later then I for sure had marked and labeled it with a tab while reading it. So I can just go to my shelf and pull down that book and viola! There it is. No time wasted and the tool has been used most effectively. I really hope this is helpful to you. It is important to read good Christian books and it is important to use them effectively to the Glory of King Jesus!

  • Jun15

    That Book

    Posted in: books

    “O give me that book! At any price give me the book of God! I have it: here is knowledge enough for me. Let me be a man of one book.”

    (John Wesley)

    Quoted in: John Piper, The Supremacy of God in Preaching (Grand Rapids: Bajer, 2004), 46.

    By the way, this book is a must read for all you preachers out there… and I hope you are out there.

  • Twitter

  • Upcoming Events

  • Contact Britt

    Email:............ office@realitycarp.com Phone:.................. 805.684.5247
    Address:............ 5251 6th st.
    carpinteria, ca. 93013
    U.S.A
  • About Britt

    Britt Merrick

    Britt Merrick is a husband, father, pastor, church planter, author & surfboard shaper. Britt lives with his wife, Kate, and their two children in Carpinteria.

    More...

  • Links & Networks

  • Pray For Daisy
  • Britt Merrick Britt's Twitter
  • Britt Merrick Britt’s Facebook
  • Britt's YouTube Channel
  • Britt's Teachings on iTunes
  • Britt Merrick Reality Church Family
  • Press & Media

  • Britt Merrick Interview or media requests